Yesterday I came home and found a letter in my mail box addressed to "Resident". Since I am a resident of where I live, I opened it.
What I found inside was a handwritten letter scrawled across a piece of spiral notebook paper. It said, "Please do something about your dogs barking. It is disturbing to your neighbors and unfair to the animals. It has been going on for sometime now, and you should be more respectful of those around you."
I picked up the envelope the letter came in so that I could find the return address and go speak to the person. But, they didn't put a return address on the envelope, all they put was, "USPS, Ventura CA 93003"
I figured it was the next door neighbors. Every morning before I head off to work, I put the dogs in the backyard. My wife has been telling me that after I leave, the man next door does something every morning in his backyard, and the dogs go nuts, barking at him through the fence that separates our two properties. That fence is the only wooden fence in our backyard. There is a block wall between us, and every other one of our neighbors, but because the dogs can see through that wooden fence, anything that moves drives them bonkers. To try and prevent that, we went out and bought a cheap little picket fence and put it about fifteen feet back from the big fence. So far, it has worked out quite well. Because the dogs cannot get to the large fence to see the man, they don't bark as much. From what my wife has been telling me, they hear the man, bark once or twice, run over to the small picket fence, and then just sort of lose interest and go on about the business of being little dogs.
I decided to go over and speak with my neighbor about the letter because he might have sent it before we put up the little fence. He was in his garage when I walked up his drive, and so I introduced myself, and told him about the letter. His wife and daughter were their with him in the garage, and when I showed him the letter, he turned and said something in Spanish to his wife, and she and their daughter went into the house. I wondered at first what was going on, and thought maybe it was going to get ugly, but before long, they returned, and in his wife's hand was a leter, just like the one I had in my hand. The man told me they got the same letter, but that they didn't even own a dog until very recently. His daughter told me that they just bought a puppy, and that he doesn't even bark.
I felt a little embarrassed, but I didn't want to apologize because there was nothing to apologize for, so I just told him that I guess I had the wrong neighbor, and that I would need to find out where the letter came from. The man smiled, we shook hands, and I was on my way.
I guess the letter came from one of our neighbors that live behind us. I guess I should go talk with them, but it's a little freaky to send an anonymous letter with no return address. It kind of gives me a bad feeling because it tells me the person is passive aggressive, and perhaps could go so far as to take matters into their own hands. They obviously do not know which house has the dogs, though, since they sent the letter to at least two different addresses, but still, I worry about what might come next.
Why people just can't be up front with one another, I will never know. If they have a problem with the dogs, why wait so long to say something, and when you finally do say something, why anonymously?
Weirdos.
So there ya have it. Yet another exciting chapter in the lives of Jacqueline and Angel. Until next week, please go see more law abiding dogs the Carnival of the Dogs at Mickey's Musings, and don't forget the Friday Ark at The Modulator for even more upstanding citizens animals.
The letter and the fact that it was anonymous is rather disturbing. The fact that the letter is being handed out throughout the neighborhood is definitely weird. I am afraid I don't have much in the way of advise here.. except to perhaps try to meet your other neighbors, even to just say hello and feel them out a little on their attitudes towards dogs. I wish you all the best with this and hope that it does not lead to other problems.
Posted by: Coll at June 9, 2007 7:42 AMWe had neighbors who let their 3 Australian Shepards bark all day and night right beneath our bedroom windows. My parents tried talking to them. I don't know what was said by either side, but basically they refused to do anything about it. We didn't want to go to the police, but someone did. The neighbors became more and more nasty in their refusals to do anything. The dogs barked at anyone walking by on our busy street and at anyone they saw at the school behind our houses. It was almost continuous noise until they moved away.
After that experience, I'm reluctant to say anything about my neighbors' dogs. I'll close the windows or avoid my own backyard before I'll say anything, but I hate listening to dogs barking. We hardly know our neighbors, so complaining about their dogs is hardly the impression I want to give. Dogs bark and some people don't care while others are bothered. I'm not much for confrontation, but I don't think I'd leave a note, either.
Posted by: Victor Tabbycat's Mom at June 9, 2007 8:18 AMJeff, That was a Chicken S*** way for some one to handle a situation. The fact that both you and the next door neighbor got the letter would indicate that the sender doesn't know who's dog is barking. If you receive another letter I would report it to the authorities to be put on file in case something else did happen. But I guess police don't want that type of crap on their records!
Posted by: momma at June 13, 2007 4:58 PM